Farmer’s Almanac Has the Best Tips for a Beautiful, Eco-friendly Garden this Spring!

10 TIPS FOR AN ECO-FRIENDLY, LOW-MAINTENANCE GARDEN

PLANT THE PERFECT GARDEN FOR NATIVE PLANTS AND POLLINATORS

March 27, 2019

Zinnia With Monarch Butterfly

Create a garden or yard that works with nature, not against it! From attracting pollinators to choosing native plants, here are 10 ways to create a more natural, low-maintenance, eco-friendly landscape. 

1. CHOOSE NATIVE PLANTS

To foster a healthy environment in your backyard, it’s best to outfit your garden with plants native to your area. In addition to already fitting into the ecosystem, native plants will already be adapted to your climate and region. They will thrive with less care and stress, and they’ll support the health of your entire yard, too, attracting pollinators and beneficial bugs.

It’s also important to choose native plants that fit into the microclimate of your garden. Do you have tons of moist, shaded land? Choose woodland species that don’t need a lot of light. Have sunny, dry spaces to fill? Pick some sun-loving wildflowers!

Non-native, invasive plants can sometimes wipe out native species, which may harm the entire ecosystem. Read “Why Native Plants Matter” with a list of common native plants.

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2. WELCOME POLLINATORS AND OTHER BENEFICIAL INSECTS

Pollinators—from bees to butterflies—are vital to our flowers and food. In fact, about one-third of every bite of food we eat stems from the efforts of pollinators!

Native bees are the most important pollinators in most ecosystems. Included in this group are mason bees, miner bees, and leafcutter bees, which are all solitary bees. Instead of living in colonies, like honey bees or bumblebees, solitary bees live on their own in burrows, reeds, or other protected areas. Learn about creating a bee house for native solitary bees.

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European honey bees, while still valuable, are not native to North America and are much less efficient at pollinating than native bee species. (Native bees may be up to three times more efficient than honey bees!). Read more about native bees, the best pollinators around.

Bees aren’t the only pollinators in the garden, though. Flies, butterflies, beetles, and wasps also play important roles. In fact, while you may expect butterflies to be the #2 pollinator, flies are the ones that hold that title.

Other insects—such as praying mantises, ladybugs, and green lacewings—are fantastic at tackling pests. For example, lacewings and ladybugs eat aphids, which can decimate vegetable crops. Read “Beneficial Insects in the Garden” and see a list of the good bugs with pictures

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A garden with diversified sources of nectar (e.g., shrubs, trees, and flowers—ideally, natives) that bloom from early spring through late fall can attract insects throughout the growing season and ultimately benefit the entire garden. For example, bright flowers such as sunflowers, candytuft, and marigolds create places where ladybugs and lacewings can shelter and lay eggs.

3. ENCOURAGE BIRDS

A healthy ecosystem invites a wide variety of wildlife to it. Many of your feathered friends will snatch up slugs, snails, grubs, caterpillars, and other pests that destroy garden plants.

  • Select native plants that attract the kind of insects, berries, and seeds that birds eat. Learn more about creating a bird-friendly backyard.
  • Put up bird feeders and nesting boxes (including those you have made yourself) to encourage more to visit. See how to choose a bird feeder.
  • Birds also need water. Install or make a birdbath for them! It should be shallow (1 to 1.5 inches deep) and contain a few small stones or pebbles for birds to rest on.
  • Don’t cut down the flowers of plants like sunflowers, coneflowers, and black-eyed susans in the fall, as their seed heads provide a valuable food source for birds in winter.
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4. BE WATER-WISE

Using water thoughtfully is a very important part of an eco-friendly landscape—and makes both the garden and yard so much easier to manage! Here are tips:

  • As advised above, select your plants with care! If you have a dry area, consider plants that are more naturally drought-tolerant such as lavender, sedum, Dianthus (“pinks”), and speedwell (Veronica). If you have a wet area, consider water-tolerant plants (that don’t mind wet feet) such as perennial iris, canna, and elephant’s ear and cinnamon, marsh, and holly ferns.
     
  • In terms of irrigation, sprinklers waste quite a bit of water; at minimum, use sprinklers that have timers. Of course, vegetable and flowers gardens should ideally not be sprayed from overhead; this is an easy way to encourage disease. Use a watering hose and water directly at the soil level. Even better: For gardens, flower beds, trees, and other non-lawn areas, installing a drip irrigation system that puts the water right into the soil, where you want it.
     
  • Harvest your rain water! A rain garden is a shallow, depressed area in your landscape with highly permeable (not hard) soil. This spot collects rain water from a roof, driveway or street and allows it to soak into the ground. Planted with grasses and flowering perennials, rain gardens can be a cost effective and beautiful way to reduce runoff from your property. Rain gardens can also help filter out pollutants in runoff and provide food and shelter for butterflies, song birds and other wildlife. See a “sun” and a “shade” rain garden plot plan.
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A rain garden, situated at the corner of a parking lot, helps to catch water runoff during rainstorms. 

  • Alternatively, install a rain barrel to catch water and use it on your plants. See our post about rain barrels.
     
  • Mulch it! Organic mulches such as compost slow water down, so that more moisture goes into the soil instead of running off. Water does not evaporate from the soil surface as quickly, either. Mulch provides nutrients to the soil and helps suppress weeds. Mulch can be applied two inches thick in existing ornamental beds, but don’t pile it too close to tree trunks or the base of plants. Read more about the “Benefits of Mulch.”
     
  • Finally, consider reducing the size of the lawn. Can some of your lawn be converted into a native wildflower meadow? If not, look into planting grasses with low watering needs in order to reduce your water use.

5. MIX IN “COMPANION PLANTS”

Are you familiar with the practice of companion planting? When paired together, certain plants improve each other’s health and yields. Usually, companion plants help ward off pests. For example, dill and basil planted among tomatoes can protect from tomato hornworms.

Also, mix flowers and vegetables together! You don’t have to choose between growing ornamentals and edibles. Many types of flowers confuse the “bad” pests and help you grow a healthier garden.

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6. AVOID HARMFUL CHEMICALS

All gardens have some pests, but deter them in ways that won’t harm the food you are growing!

For example, slugs and snails can really chow down on lettuce. However, instead of spraying with chemicals, create barriers such as crushed eggshells which these soft-bodies pests tend to avoid. Put a band of petroleum jelly around containers to stop them from climbing up. Another favorite tactic: Sink tuna tins filled with beer into the ground; slugs love beer! See our Slug pest page.

From diatomaceous earth to neem oil, there are many less toxic methods available that really work. Remember that chemical fertilizers run into rivers, oceans and wetlands. Pesticides and herbicides tend to kill many more creatures than the one or two bugs we target, as annoying as they might be.

See how to get rid of garden pests naturally.

7. TRY COMPOSTING

Do you have spare room in the corner of your yard? Instead of throwing out kitchen-based scraps and yard trimmings, dispose of them in a compost pile. You’ll encourage compost-making worms and bugs that help create a rich, fertile soil for your garden within months. It’s a great way to use fallen leaves, too! 

  • We have the perfect compost recipe to get things cooking. See how to compost!
  • There’s also in-garden or in-situ composting, which is when you are composting directly where you’re going to grow. See more about in-garden composting.
  • Ever heard of vermicomposting? Just have worms eat your garbage! It’s an easy way to recycle food waste indoors year round. See how to vermipost.
  • If you have roses or ornamental gardens, consider “compost tea,” which is a natural fertilizer to help plants thrive. See how to make compost tea.
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8. REDUCE, REUSE, RECYCLE

In general, caring about yourself and nature means being less wasteful with Earth’s resources. For example:

  • Buy in bulk when you know you’ll need a lot of topsoil, mulch, compost, or other materials. This cuts down on plastic bags. Many garden centers will even deliver right to your yard. Also check with your city recycling center or Department of Transportation; they might offer free soil, sand, or other materials.
  • Reuse, recycle, or return old plastic pots and trays. See six ways to reuse pots and containers.
  • In fact, you could even make your own plant pots! See how to make biodegradable plant pots.
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9. GIVE GRASS A CHANCE TO THRIVE ALONE

If you’re going to grow grass, eliminate the chemical pesticides you spread on lawns in favor of alternatives that are healthier—healthier for you, for the lawn, and for the environment.

  • Start by checking the soil pH (acidity) of your lawn with a test kit available at most nursery and garden supply stores, or at your state’s cooperative extension service. Soil pH affects the ability of plants to absorb nutrients. Spread limestone to raise the pH level; spread aluminum sulfate to decrease the pH level.
  • Grow grass that is suitable to your needs, not just in terms of climate and soil, but also purpose. Ask your nursery to recommend seed for grass that suits your site.
  • Don’t shave the lawn down to the ground; mow it to be 2.5 to 3.5 inches tall all season. Cut it to about 2 inches in autumn.
  • And, if at all possible, use a hand mower, instead of an electric or gas model. You’ll appreciate the freedom from fumes and noise and perhaps sleep more soundly after walking your property.

10. BUY GOOD GARDEN TOOLS

We’re frugal at The Old Farmer’s Almanac, but let’s not be penny-wise and pound-foolish. For example, forget about the $1 garden hose. It’s probably going to break quickly and just become another item to throw out. Vinyl hoses are generally the least expensive, but have the shortest lifespan. Rubber hoses are more expensive, but tougher, more flexible, and last longer. Also, get a brass coupling—not plastic—to cut down on leaks!

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Go for quality over quantity. Do you really need to purchase every tool for every landscape use? If you use a tiller once a year, consider borrowing a neighbor’s tiller. If you have your own set of tools, lend the weed-eater out twice a year.

Also, if you have time, stop at garage sales and thrift stores. It’s amazing how many garden tools are just sitting in someone’s garage and usually the older tools are better crafted than the new ones! If you have your own tools just sitting around and unused, donate them to a neighbor or thrift shop!

WORK WITH NATURE, NOT AGAINST IT

We hope these eco-friendly ideas help you create a garden and yard that works better with nature; it’s a win-win for all of us. 

Is your garden eco-friendly? Leave your suggestions in the comments below!

This article was first published on the Farmer’s Almanac website, March 27, 2019:

:https://www.almanac.com/content/plant-pollinator-garden-10-ways-work-nature

Thoughts for the Day – March 30, 2019

It takes courage to be real and reach out. It helps all of us when we share our experience. Here are a few tips for staying with it when the path of success takes unexpected twists and turns:

1. Make a plan that you commit to daily, or at least 5 to 6 days per week!
2. Write your plan down in an app like Evernote or do it the old fashioned way and write it in a journal. Review your plan every morning. Even read it out loud. Include a morning routine in the plan so that it’s about self care, not just business. For example, taking time for a spiritual practice, exercise , making a healthy smoothie to start the day!
3. Commit to a certain time each day that you will work on your business or project and do it to the degree that you can – it’s about progress, not perfection!.
4. Set a few goals, short term (I will finish an online class by this date; I will order my first inventory by this date) and long-term (I will reach monthly sales of $2,000 by this date; 5,000 by this date). Feel free to make one of your goals a goal that seems unachievable like $100K in sales by January 2020 – it primes the mind to achieve at higher levels.
5. Keep reaching out for support to other people in your area of interest, FB groups, etc.
6. Support and encourage yourself with “positive self talk” when you’re feeling discouraged or overwhelmed; you can write it down, too, to lock it in!
7. Read inspirational books, a little each day if possible, by people that have been hugely successful in terms of wealth and personal happiness, like Ray Dalio’s Principles; 4-Hour Work Week; Start with Why; 10X Rule; Anti-Fragile; Mind-Set.
8. Watch YouTube videos from Tom Bilyeu, Evan Carmichael, Stefan James – really good human beings who are also hugely successful.
9. Learn to meditate – 10 to 15 minutes per day of sitting quietly bringing your attention to the inflow and outflow of breath at the tip of your nose can change your life! When we still the mind, we have access to downloads of creativity, releasing unwanted/unneeded emotional/physical burdens, serenity and renewed energy to take inspired action. It’s so simple and so very powerful.
10. Eat more raw foods! Fruits, vegetables, nuts and seeds are packed with nutrients, enzymes and life force. Pure energy for a clean running body! Try committing to one “raw” meal a day; or one raw day each week. It will exponentially increase your level of functioning in mind, body, and spirit.

I am struggling at this time, too, but also making progress and celebrating each new discovery. Last night felt such a wave of appreciation for this journey! I am growing so much and learning so much, not just about building my business, but about navigating my own destiny. The mind is so powerful and the heart more so. We get to exercise BOTH on this amazing journey of life. So thankful!

Infinite blessings to you and yours.

Laura
Project Vibrant Life

Living a Clean Life!

A beginner’s guide to plastic-free living

Katherine Martinko

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Focus on these three areas of your life to see the biggest returns.

My friend and I were standing in a crowded local pub last weekend, waiting for a band to start playing, when he said to me, “You need to write a step-by-step guide to giving up plastic.” “I’ve already done that!” I replied, thinking of the numerous articles I’ve written on going zero waste, but he shook his head. “I don’t know where to start. You need to break it down even further, telling me exactly what needs to change and where I can get plastic-free alternatives.”

It’s true that, after years of writing about plastic avoidance and waste reduction, it’s hard for me to see it through the eyes of a beginner. There are things I mistakenly assume everyone knows, like where to find bar shampoo/conditioner and plastic-free laundry detergent. But for many people, those are still daunting and confusing steps.I’ve spend the last few days mulling over my friend’s request, and the result is this guide to getting started with plastic reduction. It’s not comprehensive, of course, because plastic-free living can be taken to all levels of extreme; but these are three key changes that I consider to be the most effective. This is where I would tell people to start.

1. Grocery shopping

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If you shop for groceries the way our society assumes you will, you’re guaranteed to come home with loads of plastic. This entire model is based on the notion that people walk into a store empty-handed, assuming they’ll be provided with all of the necessary packaging to transport food home, but this is crazy! If you can change that mindset and view shopping as an assignment that requires key tools, as well as sufficient time to do it right, then you can drastically reduce the amount of waste you bring home (and inadvertently pay for).

These ‘tools’ include reusable bags, containers, and boxes for carrying everything. I use a mishmash of drawstring solid cotton and mesh bags, glass jars in various sizes, rectangular food storage containers, and round metal canisters. Another valuable tool is knowing which local stores will accommodate your reusables. You might be surprised to find how many stores are supportive; as awareness of the plastic pollution problem spreads, local vendors are eager to do their part.

If you live in any Canadian town with a Bulk Barn store, you are entitled to use your own containers. This has been life-changing for me, as it means I can get everything from pasta, dried beans, nuts, seeds, baking supplies, dried fruit, and spices to cereal, nut butters, coconut oil, rice, and even candy plastic-free. If you live in the U.S., zero waste blogger Litterless has just updated her Where to Shop Grocery Guide, and Bea Johnson, founder of the movement, has a Bulk Finder app. I’ve read that Whole Foods will also let you use containers.

Sign up for a food box or CSA program to get plastic-free vegetables. When my CSA doesn’t provide what I need, I use mesh cotton bags to hold supermarket produce together, or else I leave them loose in the cart. In all the years I’ve been corralling stray apples, onions, and lemons on the conveyor belt, no cashier has ever complained; in fact, they often lament how customers double-bag their produce. Try to avoid veggies and fruit that are pre-packaged in plastic; sadly, this can mean paying a bit more for loose produce, rather than the cheaper bulk packs. (I make an exception for the clearance rack, which does come in plastic, but I figure the savings in money and food waste make it OK.)

If you eat dairy, it’s becoming easier to source milk in reusable glass jars; you pay a deposit for the jar and then return it to the retailer. I’ve found yogurt in glass jars at the local supermarket, but sometimes I make my own.

Get ‘naked’ loaves of bread at a local bakery. Bea Johnson takes along a pillow case when she shops and stuffs it full of fresh baguettes; I prefer to use a large cloth drawstring bag. If I’m at the supermarket and need bread, I head to the bins with loose buns or bagels, and put those into a bag. They need to be transferred to an airtight container at home. Alternatively, I bake my own if there’s time.

If you eat meat, this is very easy to buy plastic-free. Local butchers are accommodating of reusable containers, and it’s a much simpler, less messy process that allows you to put meat directly into the freezer or fridge as soon as you get home. You could also buy a partial whole animal for the freezer that comes wrapped in paper; actual butcher paper has no lining, but freezer paper does have a thin poly lining to provide a moisture barrier. I still consider this far better than the amount of plastic wrap and Styrofoam that comes with supermarket-packaged meat.

There are still many things that I haven’t addressed here, like condiments, oils, freezer foods, cheese, and snack foods, but I see those as less important in the overall fight against plastic food packaging. It’s best to focus first on the main dietary staples.

2. Bathroom products

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The next biggest source of plastic waste comes from the bathroom. Personal hygiene habits can be hard to break, but they bring significant health advantages. Many products commonly found in bathrooms contain unsafe chemicals linked to cancer, hormone disruption, and respiratory issues. You’re better off without them.

Buy unpackaged natural bar soap. My favorite is made by the Soap Works, a Toronto-based company that sells in many local shops around Ontario and online. It costs around $2 per bar, but lasts my family two weeks. We use it for everything — hands and body — which has eliminated the need for shower gels and liquid soap in a plastic dispenser. I sometimes use the olive oil soap to remove makeup. Akamai is another company that makes a beautiful paper-wrapped multi-purpose soap. I keep a big container of Dr. Bronner’s liquid castile soap in the shower, too, which unfortunately does come in plastic, but it lasts forever; I have seen some bulk store locations in Toronto that will refill these bottles, so take advantage of that if you can.

Shampoo alternatives: You can buy great solid shampoo-conditioner bars from Lush Cosmetics. Buy a metal tin for storage. The Soap Works also sells solid shampoo-conditioning bars, and Dr. Bronner’s paper-wrapped Castile Soap can be used as a shampoo, as long as it’s paired with a conditioning rinse afterward. If you want to continue using regular shampoo, check out Plaine Products, a new company that sells divine-scented shampoo in refillable metal containers. Consider switching to baking soda and apple cider vinegar, a method that I used for several years with great success.

Moisturizers: I like the fair-trade coconut oil sold by Dr. Bronner’s in a glass jar with metal lid. It’s great for moisturizing skin post-shaving, dry chapped hands, and removing makeup. Sometimes I buy my coconut oil in my own jars at Bulk Barn. I also like the solid massage bars from Lush (they’re expensive but luxurious, and come entirely without packaging if you buy them in the store). New Zealand-based Ethique makes lovely lotion bars that come wrapped in paper. The interesting thing about moisturizers, though, is that the fewer products you use on your skin in general — like makeup and detergent-containing facial washes — the less you’ll need to moisturize.

Dental care, cosmetics, shaving tools, toilet paper packaging, etc. are all other things that can be tackled in an attempt to reduce plastic in the bathroom, but these are less important in my view than the items listed above.

3. Food on the go

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How many times have you found yourself far from home and ravenously hungry? Those are the moments when one’s commitment to plastic avoidance tends to fall apart. It’s almost impossible to find packaged food on the go that does not come in plastic.

There are a few solutions to this problem. The first is to pack all the food you’ll need when you leave the house. Whether it’s your daily commute to work or a multi-hour road trip, make sure you’ve got all the snacks and drinks you’ll need along the way.

If you have difficulty packing food in advance, keep a zero-waste food kit in your car at all times. This means that, no matter where you are, you’ve always got a container, a reusable straw, a coffee cup, a water bottle, a napkin, and whatever else you may need. Here are some thoughts on how to put one together.

Finally, if you’re hungry and find yourself without reusable cups or dishes, take some time out of your day to sit down. Ask for your coffee in a ceramic mug and spend 10 minutes at a table in a cafe, enjoying it. Eat your lunch in a restaurant to avoid the plastic takeout container and the disposable cutlery. Make sure you ask for no straw in your drink. This can be a tough mental shift for a society that lives on the move, but it can introduce valuable moments of respite in the midst of busy days.

Packing a lunch? Invest in high-quality reusable containers made of metal or glass and washable cloth bags. Having these on hand will eliminate the urge to use disposable sandwich bags, plastic wrap, and plastic containers that age poorly and leach toxic chemicals into the food. Get a good water bottle for every member of the family. Purchase a set of versatile Abeego wraps (pictured at the top) as a substitute for plastic wrap. Visit Life Without Plastic, a.k.a. the greatest site in the world, to find everything you need.

There is so much more I could talk about, but this is what I consider to be ‘low-hanging fruit,’ the changes that will create the most benefit in your life when it comes to reducing plastic. Establish these new habits, then it will be easier to tackle the next level of changes (such as cleaning and clothing), which I’ll cover in a subsequent post.

First published on May 25, 2018 at:

https://www.treehugger.com/green-home/beginners-guide-plastic-free-living.html

Words are powerful. The words suggested here are not just for kids! They’re for us, too. Blessings and Love, PVL

How to Change Your Child’s Mindset in Just a Few Minutes a Day, by Liz Hall

Affirmations for kids are a powerful way to help children develop a mindset of positivity and success. Here’s how to get started:

Affirmations for kids are a powerful way to help children develop a mindset of positivity and success. Here's how to get started: #affirmationsforkids #affirmations #parenting #parentingtips #children #kids

My daughter and I were sitting on the floor putting a puzzle together. We’d done this puzzle of mermaids swimming with fish countless times before, but the detailed section could get tricky. My daughter tried to shove a bluefin into a purple octopus. It wasn’t working no matter how many times she tried.

“Ahhh!” she shouted, flinging the pieces – and what we’d completed of the puzzle so far – across her bedroom. “I CAN’T DO IT.”

The words reverberated across the room. “I can’t do it.”

“Honey,” I said. “It’s okay. Take a breath.”

It took some coaxing, and a whole lot of patience, but she finally decided to try the puzzle again and eventually finish it.

I knew this frustration was partially a factor of her age. At 2 years old, she was learning so much. And new things? They could be challenging and frustrating.

But her words, “I can’t”, hit me particularly hard. I struggle with telling myself negative things about my own capabilities (parenting and otherwise), and have for as long as I can remember… and here I saw my daughter doing the same thing at the very impressionable age of two.

Why positive affirmations are important

I hated that, as a young child, my daughter was already telling herself, “I can’t.”

Enter affirmations, or positive mantras, something I’ve been practicing for a few years. Instead of using words like “I can’t,” affirmations are practicing the words that empower and uplift us instead, such as “I can.”

By practicing changing the words we tell ourselves, we can calm the negative chatter and, in turn, we talk to ourselves in a more positive way. Rather than bring us down, affirmations are the practice of lifting us up.

Studies have shown that our thoughts, on average, can be up to 70% negative. To top it off, we tend to have the same thoughts, over and over again, day after day, week after week.

One way to break this cycle of negative chatter is to do affirmations, but not do them here and there… but to make a practice of it so that our positive thoughts become another habit.

Our thought patterns start when we’re kids, and luckily for us parents, our young children are pretty darn good at speaking their minds when they want to. This provides us some insight into how they feel when they get frustrated or when they try something new.

Around the time of the puzzle incident, I decided to do my affirmations with my daughter. I knew how much I needed them to break my cycle of negative thinking, so I figured I’d help her start on the right foot by doing them with her at an early age. After all, it’s never too early to start a habit of positive thoughts.

Why affirmations work

Simply put the words you tell yourself matter. In other words, if you tell yourself you can’t, you’re completely right… because you never will! The word ‘can’t’ literally shuts the possibility down even before you’ve given yourself a chance.

But start saying what you can do? And start focusing on your positive qualities? It’s life-changing, because, your brain will believe what you tell it. It’s one of the reasons I love reading “The Little Engine That Could” with my kids. If you believe you can’t,  you won’t. But if you believe you can, you will.

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How to do affirmations with kids

First, pick out which affirmations you’d like to say out loud together. Tailor this to each child, because what one kid needs to hear might be different from the other. While my oldest struggles with shyness, my youngest doesn’t, so for my oldest, affirmations like “I have a strong and important voice” are helpful. (Keep reading for some other ideas on affirmations for children).

I’ll never forget the day I was getting ready in the bathroom and my daughter came in and asked, “Can we do ‘formations’?” Even though she was working on her words and pronunciation, she loved doing affirmations, whether we did them in front of the mirror or as we walked out the door.

That said, I do prefer the mirror. After all: eye contact is powerful in parenting, including when we look at ourselves. For us, I say the affirmation out loud, and ask my daughter to repeat after me. After we got in the practice of it, she started memorizing the affirmations and started saying them right along with me.

You can also make a practice of doing affirmations while looking at one other. Encourage your child to look you in the eye and repeat after you. For kids who need help calming down, eye contact along with affirming words can help quite a bit.

Another great way to do affirmations, especially for older children who know how to read, is by creating flashcards. Write them down, decorate the cards, and make it a fun activity to do together. The bonus of this practice: the act of writing can reinforce the affirmation in their mind. Another bonus: they’ll practice reading too! It’s a win-win.

No matter which way you plan to do affirmations, make a habit of it and part of your routine. Sometimes my daughter and I do them when we brush our teeth before bed. Other times, we do them as we’re walking out the door and into the car… just find a way to fit them into your life!

Affirmations for kids: a few ideas

To get you started, here are some affirmations for kids you can say with your children. I definitely recommend tailoring them to things or ideas you know your children are struggling with. Starting with the phrase of “I am” is powerful, but not required when doing affirmations, but keeping it in the present tense helps. The point of doing affirmations, after all, is to reframe your (and your kids’) negative thinking in the present moment.

All these suggestions are short, because, especially for younger kids, they’re easier to remember and repeat:

I am strong.

I am confident.

I am worthy.

I am capable.

I am kind.

I am brave.

I am a wonderful friend.

I am helpful.

I am unique.

I spread joy.

I am a good listener.

I am talented.

I am creative.

I am loved and am loveable.

Don’t have time to make your own affirmations? Check out these printable affirmation cards specifically for kids. Simply print them out (I prefer heavy stock paper), cut, and you’ll have 101+ cards to share with your kids. The printable package also includes a few blank cards to allow you to write affirmations specifically for your child. (Click the image below to see the cards)

This article was originally published in 2019: https://selfsufficientkids.com

Living Raw. Sweet, beautiful, infinitely kind to body and soul…

RAW VEGAN BOUNTY SLICE!

 

Raw Vegan Bounty Slice!

This healthy decadent slice will leave you wanting more and more! Prep Time 30minutes Servings 16 Author Sharlene Fletcher

Ingredients

Base

  • 1 cup desiccated coconut Organic
  • 1/2 cup raw almonds Organic
  • 1/2 cup raw cashews Organic
  • 2 cups pitted dates Soaked/Organic
  • 1/4 cup cacao powder Organic

Bounty Filling

  • 2 cups desiccated coconut Organic
  • 1 cup raw cashews Organic
  • 1/2 cup rice malt syrup Organic
  • 1 tsp vanilla bean powder or paste Organic

Vegan Vanilla Chocolate

  • 1/2 cup cold pressed coconut oil Melted/Organic
  • 1/2 cup cacao butter Melted/Organic
  • 1 cup cacao powder Organic
  • 1/2 cup rice malt syrup Organic
  • 1 tsp vanilla bean powder Organic

Instructions

  1. Place all ‘BASE” dry ingredients into a food processor.Blend until it forms a biscuit crumble.Add pitted dates.Blend until your mix forms a soft dough.TIP: If the mix is still crumbly, keep blending.Remove blade and press mixture evenly into a square silicon mold.Set aside while you make the ‘Bounty Filling”

Bounty Filling

  1. Place all dry ingredients into a food processor.Blend until it forms a biscuit crumble.Add rice malt syrup.Blend until your mix forms a soft chewy dough.TIP: If the mix is still crumbly, keep blending otherwise it will be to crumbly to cut into perfect squares when set.Remove blade and press mixture evenly and flat over the top of base.Place flat in freezer overnight or for at least 6 hours.

This article was first published in November 2018 on Live, Love, Eat Raw: https://liveloveeatraw.com.au/

Gorgeous, Strong, Healthy Hair!

Cutting Hair by the Moon – 3 Easy Steps

Anthony Morrocco June 25, 2013 Lunar Hair Chart

Cutting hair by the moon is not a recent phenomenon, but it has become a forgotten secret to growing long, luxurious hair.  The moon is a powerful force, both scientifically and spiritually, but let’s be honest: Do you believe the moon cycle can influence hair growth cycles?  If you’re curious about cutting hair by the moon and looking for seriously luxurious hair then you might want to give the Lunar Chart for Cutting (www.thehairshaman.com) a second glance. The Lunar Hair Chart is created from the wisdom and math of the Farmer’s Almanac, Western Astrology and the Mayan Lunar Calendar for optimizing hair cutting. The chart utilizes the moon’s natural cycle and applies it to hair care. In conjunction with the Blunt Snip technique this provides the ultimate hair cutting result for any hair type.

Cutting hair by the Moon
The Moon has a powerful affect on Hair Growth

The Lunar Hair Chart is a timeline and calendar for the best time to cut hair by the moon depending on your lunar goal. It’s advisable to trim your hair once a month for ultimate hair health, but this doesn’t mean you need to cut much–an 1/8th of an inch will do the trick!

By removing dry, dead, and split ends, your hair can focus on growing, instead of trying to restore those ends that are beyond help. Similar to a plant in a garden, “deadheading,” or removing dead blooms allows the plant to focus on growth.  This cut helps to jump start the growth cycle by shocking your hair from the tip to the root.  Cutting hair by the moon on a specific lunar day will multiply these effects.  Ready to start?

1. Goals for Cutting Hair by the Moon

There are five hair goals with corresponding dates to choose from:

Shocks and excites your hair growth patterns, causing your hair to grow two to three times faster than normal.

Promotes the activation of new growth cycles in your bulb and hair follicles that thicken the follicle.

Enables roots, follicles, and bulbs to increase and strengthen your growth patterns, producing stronger and more resilient hair.

Shocks the entire growth cycle, aiding your hair and scalp in all aspects of hair growth and scalp improvement, this should be a base in your cutting routine.

Improves and evens the texture and sheen of hair as well as enhances and refines waves and/or curls.

Unsure what goals to start with? We recommend Root Work as this is where your hair grows from–you can’t have healthy hair without a healthy scalp. In fact, you should alternate your main goal with Root Work because it provides a good foundation for your main goal to grow from!

You might notice these dates don’t sync with the astrological calendar. This is because modern calendars are based on a 12 moon cycle, and the Mayan Lunar Calendar uses 13 moon phases. The Lunar Hair Chart is optimized for haircutting.

2. Create a Plan to Cut

Now that you know your goals, you need to look at the lunar hair chart for cutting hair by the moon. The most powerful times to cut your hair are during full moons, and especially on equinoxes and solstices.  Plan out your hair cutting routine based on these dates.

You’ll notice there are usually several days you can pick from for each goal. This is helpful for those who have busy schedules and need the times to be flexible, but the middle date is always the most powerful in the group.

Our general recommendation is to cut or trim seasonally. This translates to four times a year, or every three months. If the dates correspond to your lunar goal or goals, it is preferable to cut on the corresponding solstice or equinox.

As with shampooing and conditioning routines, your cutting frequency may vary depending on your needs and the needs of your hair.

3. Cut your hair!

We don’t mean hacking off inches at a time. Quite the opposite! Trim your ends using the blunt snip hair cutting method  blunt snip method anywhere from an 1/8th of an inch to 1 inch to seal the ends.

This article was first published in 2013 by Morrocco Method International:

https://www.morroccomethod.com

7 Tools To Reduce Stress

7 tools to reduce stress

1. Metacognition- Think about your thinking
When there is a conflict, look at the situation, but also observe how you think about the conflict. If your observation is that you are hyper-focused on the conflict, it can actually make the stress of the conflict escalate. We have all had days where things continue to go wrong like a painful domino train wreck right before our eyes. If some of those painful issues that arise are not triggered by you, all you can do is try and help and then move forward.

A good habit to practice when you are practicing metacognition and how to manage conflicts is to break it up into two categories: problem you have the power to change, and problems you do not have the power to change because of circumstances out of your control. If the circumstance surrounding the stress is not in your control, find a way to let it go. When you release stress tied to a situation you cannot fix, you keep that energy. That energy given to stress is reserved for you to handle the conflicts that you do have the power to change.

2. Learn your triggers
Very often, situations arise that seem to happen again and again. If there is a situation with a child, or relative, or work colleague and you thought you handled it once; why is it a problem again? If you squashed the conflict before, it doesn’t make sense that it is back and this triggers stress because of the conflict’s recurring nature.

Other triggers could originate with emotional injuries from a bad break up, childhood, a loss, or from another sensitive topic. When something we can directly connect to comes up as a conflict, this adds more stress compared to if you had no background. Being able to recognize these circumstances will reduce stress because you have seen it before, you have handled it before, and you can handle it again. There is a peaceful power familiarity holds even during a situation of duress.

3. Release and let go Once the stress has happened, release it and let go. Do not focus more energy to relive it in your mind, thinking of what you could have said, or done, or will do if it happens again. That keeps the stress present and continues to drain your energy. Mental energy drained to relive events translates into less energy to physically carry out daily tasks. Have you noticed that during stressful moments, after reviewing the conflict in your mind, you feel tired and ready for a nap or mental break? For some people, reliving these events thinking about hypothetical realities can lead to emotional breakdowns and cyclical negative thinking, especially if the outcome was not as positive as you wanted.

The situation could be that you are an avid online shopper trying to plan ahead for the upcoming holidays. You are waiting for a few packages, and every day you check the mailbox, or the front porch in search of the packages. Your apps said they were delivered, you haven’t seen them yet and now you feel immense stress. The packages are important and it was hard-earned money, so of course it is okay to be stressed, right? When the reality could be, it was returned to the post office, because the carrier did not want to leave it on your doorstep unattended and you missed the orange slip in your regular mail.

Taking time to address the situation first, before strong emotional reactions can save extensive amounts of energy because it prevents stress from stacking on your shoulders. Waiting to learn more about a situation does not negate the importance of your concern. Waiting to glean additional insights does not mean you are experiencing conflict avoidance. You are following a process that is self-aware to protect your health long term. This will reduce stress. Once you adapt ways to remain self-aware in various situations, the faster your stress levels will decrease. There is no one size fits all way to become self-aware.

An approach to release and let it go might include asking yourself what has happened that upsets me the most? It might also involve considering what steps led to this conflict? as well as what resources do I have to help fix this issue? Starting with this reflection can help sort through the mess conflicts are known to create.

4. Support systems
In our day to day life, many of us interact with one or more people involved in our support system. These individuals can include parents, other relatives, a best friend, coworkers, a family pet, or a neighbor with a listening ear. One way to relieve stress is to talk about it with people who care for us. The only caveat would be to establish if you are looking for advice, or needing to vent and be heard. If you need to vent, and advice is freely given, this make increase stress when the motivation behind the advice is full of love and concern to help. Setting clear boundaries such as this one can help prevent additional stress.

5. Meditation as a habit
It may come as no surprise that meditation is becoming an increasingly popular tool to implement mindfulness and positive mentalities. This is due in large part because it causes us to become aware of even the smallest things which surround us. If you have never meditated, there are a smorgasbord of ways to get in touch with your inner peace. There are guided meditations, independent meditations with only music, and the timing can be for as little as 3 minute intervals once a day. The structure of meditation is tailored to your lifestyle and the moments in between life where you can sit and be still.

One easy way to try meditation is via the app store on your smartphone. There are tons of free meditation apps. One helpful app I have used is Headspace. It offers 3, 5, or 10 minute sessions and gives a video and a daily reminder and quote slowly explaining the level of importance and long term positive benefits consistent meditation offers. There are other apps that offer this level of support to newbies as well. The key reminder about meditation is that our brains need to be a part of a routine practice exercise with meditation just as our muscles need a routine for exercise. You can only be stronger if you routinely exercise. You can only reduce stress consistently if you meditate consistently– if this is the primary tool you implement to diffuse stress.

6. Mindfulness
This has also been referred to as being full present in the moment. Meditation is a tool to encourage mindfulness of our surroundings and as we experience life. Have you ever driven home and are not sure how you got there? Driving is done by route memory automatically when we travel to and from home, for example. To go home, your brain remembers and automatically kicks into gear to get you there.

Driving is only one example that we automate so that our minds can be busy sorting out other details like what to cook for dinner or a plot development in the newest Netflix show. When life becomes too automated, it can feel like the day disappears before we know it and this can trigger stress. When you take the time to be full present in each moment as much as possible, time slows down and we decrease stress. To be fully present, it requires us to focus on one thing at a time and slow down. When eating dinner, be unplugged to enjoy the meal and spend time with family or fur babies, not the television or social media. Basking in these little moments keeps life in perspective which is preventative for stress. If life feels like it is speeding by, consider this an indication that mindfulness can be better incorporated into our routine.

7. Find a healthy outlet
Outlets include hobbies, exercise, journaling, laughing baby videos, baby goats on YouTube, or James Corden’s Carpool Karaoke videos. A misconception is that outlets for stress are limited to physical exertion. Laughing is an outlet that also decreases stress. During my undergraduate studies, if my mind was constantly streaming the endless to do list which inevitably waited for me each morning, puppy videos on YouTube were my only reprieve. Without entertaining YouTube videos, I would not have gotten nearly enough restful sleep.

Other modalities of stress relief can be found in hobbies like art or other forms of expression. Outlets are just ways to let out stress. When the pressure from stress pushes someone to a boiling point, the steam must be released. Otherwise, pressurized steam can wreak havoc on our health. Consider what brings you joy and embrace it, especially when you are experiencing high stress. This will cultivate balance so that the sensation of feeling overwhelmed can be kept at bay.

If you can choose two or three of the tools listed above to decrease stress it can easily improve your quality of life. Even if our experiences have temporary stress which has ended, sometimes that residual tension can still cause damage. When balance can be established and built into a routine, challenging situations become easier to manage. Changing behavior patterns to create balance takes time and commitment. It is not an overnight fix, but it is within arm’s reach if you only reach out and catch it.

This article was first published on: https://www.healthylivingmagazine.us

7 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR HOME ENVIRONMENTALLY FRIENDLY

Are you ready to incorporate some Earth-friendly pieces into your home decor? Great! Check out these helpful tips to add even more personality to your home while taking care of the environment.

THINK BIG WITH ECO-FRIENDLY FURNITURE

When it comes to making your home greener, one smart place to start is with your furniture. It anchors every room and it’s the foundation for your home’s style. That’s why these items present a significant opportunity to make a super-green impact. Start out by shopping for eco-friendly furniture. You can find everything from tables made out of reclaimed wood to sofas crafted using FSC-certified wood, recycled steel, recycled polyethylene, organic cotton and long-lasting linen. Look for beds, media consoles, dressers and bedside tables that suit your style and sustainability priorities. With quality furniture in your home and the peace of mind that you’re helping your environment, you can sleep soundly.

CHOOSE ECO-FRIENDLY BEDDING

A great night of sleep is restorative and relaxing, and it all starts with high-quality eco-friendly bedding. There’s a whole range of styles, patterns and colors to choose from in eco-friendly materials like durable linen, organic cotton and supersoft TENCEL. With so many options, you can find something that’s totally your style and still take care of the environment.

If you want to take things a step further, look for products that are Oeko-Tex certified. This is a rigorous standard that tests for the presence of harmful substances like formaldehyde and cadmium. To boot, the certification requirements become stricter the more a product is designed to come into contact with your skin.

BATHE IN ECO-FRIENDLY STYLE

What’s the one thing everyone in your home enjoys using daily? Towels! Because these are used so frequently, investing in a set of eco-friendly bath towels is a great idea. But why stop there? You can also purchase organic rugs for the bathroom, along with eco-friendly shower curtains. For some added luxury, look for spa robes made with indulgent, eco-friendly organic cotton.

GOING GREEN IS GORGEOUS

Rugs bring a blend of fresh color and texture to floors all over your home, whether they’re in the entryway, the den or the front of your sinks. Choose from a number of trendy patterns and designs in eco-friendly rugs to use throughout your space. Some rugs are crafted to remain durable both indoors and outdoors. Plus, you can find them in different size options, which allows you to carry a theme with coordinating rugs from the inside of your house through to your outdoor living spaces.

TAKE IT OUTSIDE

Time to head outside for another breath of fresh air – and fresh decor! Updating your outdoor living areas with eco-friendly furniture is a great way to feel relaxed and responsible while you’re spending time with friends and family or a good book. Consider bringing some pieces crafted from FSC-certified wood into the mix. The Forest Stewardship Council is a non-profit organization that creates standards to ensure wood is managed and harvested sustainably. When you choose a dining table and chair set, comfy chaise, grand ottoman or versatile sectional with this certification, you can rest assured that your moments enjoyed in the outdoors didn’t come at the cost of the environment.

ENVIRONMENTAL ENTERTAINING

Another exciting way you can help protect the environment is by purchasing eco-friendly glassware. Using drinking glasses and pouring pitchers crafted from recycled glass, you can turn your entertaining and hosting into a soiree that’s both green and gleeful. These serving pieces look great on your eco-friendly outdoor furnishings, allowing you to entertain guests in style.

SPRUCE THINGS UP

There’s definitely no need to sacrifice style when it comes to creating a harmonious, eco-friendly home, from the bigger furniture to those dazzling decorative details that always catch your eye. Surround yourself with some gorgeous eco-friendly decor. You can add sparkle to a sideboard with recycled glass candleholders and vases, or get in the spirit of salvage by incorporating some rustic found objects into a vignette on your bookcase. Whatever your unique taste is, you can choose environmentally-conscious accessories to match that are just as exquisite as they are Earth-friendly.

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10 Ways to Go Green and Save Green

How can we live lightly on the Earth and save money at the same time? Staff members at the Worldwatch Institute, a global environmental organization, share ideas on how to GO GREEN and SAVE GREEN at home and at work. To learn more about Worldwatch’s efforts to create am environmentally sustainable society that meets human needs, 

Climate change is in the news. It seems like everyone’s “going green.” We’re glad you want to take action, too. Luckily, many of the steps we can take to stop climate change can make our lives better. Our grandchildren-and their children-will thank us for living more sustainably. Let’s start now.

We’ve partnered with the Million Car Carbon Campaign to help you find ways to save energy and reduce your carbon footprint. This campaign is uniting conscious consumers around the world to prevent the emissions-equivalent of 1 million cars from entering the atmosphere each year.

Keep reading for 10 simple things you can do today to help reduce your environmental impact, save money, and live a happier, healthier life. For more advice, purchase State of the World 2010 – Transforming Cultures: From Consumerism to Sustainability, a report from 60 renowned researchers and practitioners on how to reorient cultures toward sustainability.

  • Save energy to save money.
    • Set your thermostat a few degrees lower in the winter and a few degrees higher in the summer to save on heating and cooling costs.
    • Install compact fluorescent light bulbs (CFLs) when your older incandescent bulbs burn out.
    • Unplug appliances when you’re not using them. Or, use a “smart” power strip that senses when appliances are off and cuts “phantom” or “vampire” energy use.
    • Wash clothes in cold water whenever possible. As much as 85 percent of the energy used to machine-wash clothes goes to heating the water.
    • Use a drying rack or clothesline to save the energy otherwise used during machine drying.

Save water to save money.

  • Take shorter showers to reduce water use. This will lower your water and heating bills too.
  • Install a low-flow shower head. They don’t cost much, and the water and energy savings can quickly pay back your investment.
  • Make sure you have a faucet aerator on each faucet. These inexpensive appliances conserve heat and water, while keeping water pressure high.
  • Plant drought-tolerant native plants in your garden. Many plants need minimal watering. Find out which occur naturally in your area.
  • Eat smart.
  • Skip the bottled water.
    • Use a water filter to purify tap water instead of buying bottled water. Not only is bottled water expensive, but it generates large amounts of container waste.
    • Bring a reusable water bottle, preferably aluminum rather than plastic, with you when traveling or at work.
    • Check out this short article for the latest on bottled water trends.
  • Think before you buy.
    • Go online to find new or gently used secondhand products. Whether you’ve just moved or are looking to redecorate, consider a service like craigslist or FreeSharing to track down furniture, appliances, and other items cheaply or for free.
    • Check out garage sales, thrift stores, and consignment shops for clothing and other everyday items.
    • Watch a video about what happens when you buy things. Your purchases have a real impact, for better or worse.
  • Borrow instead of buying.
    • Borrow from libraries instead of buying personal books and movies. This saves money, not to mention the ink and paper that goes into printing new books.
    • Share power tools and other appliances. Get to know your neighbors while cutting down on the number of things cluttering your closet or garage.
  • Buy smart.
    • Buy in bulk. Purchasing food from bulk bins can save money and packaging.
    • Wear clothes that don’t need to be dry-cleaned. This saves money and cuts down on toxic chemical use.
    • Invest in high-quality, long-lasting products. You might pay more now, but you’ll be happy when you don’t have to replace items as frequently (and this means less waste!).
  • Keep electronics out of the trash.
    • Keep your cell phones, computers, and other electronics as long as possible.
    • Donate or recycle them responsibly when the time comes. E-waste contains mercury and other toxics and is a growing environmental problem.
    • Recycle your cell phone.
    • Ask your local government to set up an electronics recycling and hazardous waste collection event.
  • Make your own cleaning supplies.
    • The big secret: you can make very effective, non-toxic cleaning products whenever you need them. All you need are a few simple ingredients like baking soda, vinegar, lemon, and soap.
    • Making your own cleaning products saves money, time, and packaging-not to mention your indoor air quality.
  • Bonus Item!

Thanks to members of SustainUS, the U.S. youth network for sustainable development, for contributing their ideas on how to go green and save green at home and at work.

This article was first published on: http://www.worldwatch.org/resources/go_green_save_green